It's summer time again and it means I'm back ^-^ This time, I'm going to spend time answering all the inquiries I have received for the past two years ever since I made this blog. I already replied to some privately since most of it are too personal. The following are just general questions that I think I can post and share my answers publicly. If you have any questions, feel free to put it on my Contact/Ask page and I will answer them as soon as I can. Just a reminder, these are just my opinions and I have no intention of offending anyone with my answers.My only purpose is to share what I think about stuffs that people are asking me and hopefully, would help them find their own answers to their own questions. If you would like to add more inputs, please comment below.
Question 1: Are humans worthless? (~worthless.kid)
Well, I understand your reasoning and I agree that people will just die at the end. However, I believe that humans are not worthless if they make the best out of their short life that were given. This leads to the question I have for myself too, "so what's the purpose of my life?" and the best answer I have is to just live with a positive life. What do I mean by living with a positive life? It means living with the people who love me, being thankful for what I have, trying to do good in order to make my love ones happy and also helping others as much as I can.
Try to live your life to the fullest and that doesn't mean that you need to go with the trend or force yourself to be someone you are not. Just be yourself, let the society adjust for you. As long as you are not hurting other people, keep doing what you are doing. If you think you can't help yourself, try helping others and maybe then, you will find what you are looking for.
Well, I understand your reasoning and I agree that people will just die at the end. However, I believe that humans are not worthless if they make the best out of their short life that were given. This leads to the question I have for myself too, "so what's the purpose of my life?" and the best answer I have is to just live with a positive life. What do I mean by living with a positive life? It means living with the people who love me, being thankful for what I have, trying to do good in order to make my love ones happy and also helping others as much as I can.
Try to live your life to the fullest and that doesn't mean that you need to go with the trend or force yourself to be someone you are not. Just be yourself, let the society adjust for you. As long as you are not hurting other people, keep doing what you are doing. If you think you can't help yourself, try helping others and maybe then, you will find what you are looking for.
Question 2: How can I find what I'm good at? (~misty)
Explore. Try new different things. Honestly, I'm like you. I have not yet found the things that I really want. That's why I keep trying different things. I tried playing some instruments but I kind of failed. I tried becoming a writer of stories(on wattpad), but I find it hard because I was not able to find a good ending for the stories that I did and also, my grammar plus my vocabulary are not that good if you haven't noticed yet. I also tried graphic designing. However, I do not have much time to develop my skills on that because of school work. Then I found blogging, which is what I am doing now. I'm not going to say that I am good at it because what I am basically doing is sharing my opinions about stuffs that I find interesting. So yeah I think, I'm good at sharing what I know eve though they really don't matter that much but it helps me develop certain skills that I never thought I have. What I am trying say is, never settle on one thing. Keep trying different things and I'm pretty sure that sooner or later, you will find what you really want.
Explore. Try new different things. Honestly, I'm like you. I have not yet found the things that I really want. That's why I keep trying different things. I tried playing some instruments but I kind of failed. I tried becoming a writer of stories(on wattpad), but I find it hard because I was not able to find a good ending for the stories that I did and also, my grammar plus my vocabulary are not that good if you haven't noticed yet. I also tried graphic designing. However, I do not have much time to develop my skills on that because of school work. Then I found blogging, which is what I am doing now. I'm not going to say that I am good at it because what I am basically doing is sharing my opinions about stuffs that I find interesting. So yeah I think, I'm good at sharing what I know eve though they really don't matter that much but it helps me develop certain skills that I never thought I have. What I am trying say is, never settle on one thing. Keep trying different things and I'm pretty sure that sooner or later, you will find what you really want.
Question 3: What do you believe in? (~anonymous456)
Tricky question which is a good one actually but in terms of what?
Well, I believe that there's a God. I believe in myself that I can do things that I never thought I can do. I believe in each individual's potential. I believe that each one of us is unique and should be respected. I believe in the natural balance of life. I believe that there are extraterrestrial creatures out there and that we are not alone. I believe in a lot of things and it would probably take me forever to list them. I said that this is a good question because it raises one of most important issues in our societies today--different beliefs and how people react to them. I still do not get the point why people have to argue and prove how right their beliefs are... I mean, why do they have to force other people to believe what they believe? We were born unique and have the freedom to choose whatever we want. Why can't we just respect others and be open minded people? Why can't we just agree to disagree sometimes? What's the point of fighting over something that would only cause chaos? Why can't we just have peace? Is that what humanity is all about now?
Tricky question which is a good one actually but in terms of what?
Well, I believe that there's a God. I believe in myself that I can do things that I never thought I can do. I believe in each individual's potential. I believe that each one of us is unique and should be respected. I believe in the natural balance of life. I believe that there are extraterrestrial creatures out there and that we are not alone. I believe in a lot of things and it would probably take me forever to list them. I said that this is a good question because it raises one of most important issues in our societies today--different beliefs and how people react to them. I still do not get the point why people have to argue and prove how right their beliefs are... I mean, why do they have to force other people to believe what they believe? We were born unique and have the freedom to choose whatever we want. Why can't we just respect others and be open minded people? Why can't we just agree to disagree sometimes? What's the point of fighting over something that would only cause chaos? Why can't we just have peace? Is that what humanity is all about now?
Question 4: How will you know if someone likes you back? (~jessika)
Simple, just ask. Do not make your life so complicated. "Easier said than done"? Maybe you are right but what do you think makes it hard for you to ask? Think about it and you'll know that it is just our fear of rejection. I know it will be hard to accept it but you will not regret doing it. I am not saying you will get rejected, it is just a possibility and whatever the answer to what you have to ask, you should be ready to accept them so that you will not get hurt that much. The point is at least you will know the answer to your question. If he/she likes you back, then good. If not, then it is still good.
Simple, just ask. Do not make your life so complicated. "Easier said than done"? Maybe you are right but what do you think makes it hard for you to ask? Think about it and you'll know that it is just our fear of rejection. I know it will be hard to accept it but you will not regret doing it. I am not saying you will get rejected, it is just a possibility and whatever the answer to what you have to ask, you should be ready to accept them so that you will not get hurt that much. The point is at least you will know the answer to your question. If he/she likes you back, then good. If not, then it is still good.
Question 5: What do you think is the proper age to fall inlove? (~jessika)
We fall inlove by the time we were born. We fall in love with our mom, dad, brothers, sisters, grandmas, grandads and many more. What I am saying is, there is no specific age to fall in love because we were born with it. Now, if you are referring to a real relationship, I wouldn't say any specific age but if you are ready to understand all the difficulties you may face with your partner, then your age will not matter as long as you know how to become responsible of yourself.
We fall inlove by the time we were born. We fall in love with our mom, dad, brothers, sisters, grandmas, grandads and many more. What I am saying is, there is no specific age to fall in love because we were born with it. Now, if you are referring to a real relationship, I wouldn't say any specific age but if you are ready to understand all the difficulties you may face with your partner, then your age will not matter as long as you know how to become responsible of yourself.
Question 6: Am I ugly? (~sunny~)
No, humans are fool to set standards for being beautiful. I have nothing else to say about this because with my own standards, each and every creature on this Earth is beautiful and I am thankful that God gave me the chance to see them. We should learn how to appreciate them and also with our own selves. You are one of His creations, so don't drag yourself down just because of what the society is showing us. So be yourself always.
No, humans are fool to set standards for being beautiful. I have nothing else to say about this because with my own standards, each and every creature on this Earth is beautiful and I am thankful that God gave me the chance to see them. We should learn how to appreciate them and also with our own selves. You are one of His creations, so don't drag yourself down just because of what the society is showing us. So be yourself always.
Question 7: How do you deal with stress? (~MidnightBlue)
Oh I have no escape from stress lol I swear that has always been with me ever since I started schooling. I have found ways how to minimize it though and this might also help you. Check it out here. Hope it helps, I'm also trying some of them. I usually just listen to music to calm my nerves down or I'm taking a deep breath and then taking out while saying to myself that "I can do this" .
Oh I have no escape from stress lol I swear that has always been with me ever since I started schooling. I have found ways how to minimize it though and this might also help you. Check it out here. Hope it helps, I'm also trying some of them. I usually just listen to music to calm my nerves down or I'm taking a deep breath and then taking out while saying to myself that "I can do this" .
Question 8: I'm not interested with studying anymore? (~michael)
I can totally relate to that. I keep losing my driving force to studying sometimes. I mean what's the point right? But trust me it's worth it. Whenever I don't feel like studying, I usually go outside, walk for a awhile and then try to calm myself down from being stressed with studies. This helps reset my mind and think the reason how I was interested before with studying. I know the way how the schools educate the children. They judge a child's ability from homework, labs, projects, quizzes, exams and tests without considering how they would affect the child's mind. I know those assessments are just ways of the school to prepare the students of the real world. However, this may lead them to having mental illnesses. Mental illness is becoming a main concern in America right now, but still being ignored by others. Anyways, I'm becoming off topic again. Try having small breaks and try enjoying what you are learning by sharing those knowledge to others.
I can totally relate to that. I keep losing my driving force to studying sometimes. I mean what's the point right? But trust me it's worth it. Whenever I don't feel like studying, I usually go outside, walk for a awhile and then try to calm myself down from being stressed with studies. This helps reset my mind and think the reason how I was interested before with studying. I know the way how the schools educate the children. They judge a child's ability from homework, labs, projects, quizzes, exams and tests without considering how they would affect the child's mind. I know those assessments are just ways of the school to prepare the students of the real world. However, this may lead them to having mental illnesses. Mental illness is becoming a main concern in America right now, but still being ignored by others. Anyways, I'm becoming off topic again. Try having small breaks and try enjoying what you are learning by sharing those knowledge to others.